How Parents Build Good Characters for Their Child

A good character is an important thing in every one. Without having good characters, even we are clever and  rich, we are still pointless. That's the reason why characters building become main purpose in a big corporation when it has hired it workers. 

Talking about character, we cant deny that parents has high substantial role in configurating child's character. It should be a good cooperate between father and mother in doing it.Remember no success if both of them dont have a same purpose in bringing up child, especially about character as a basic of education. Here area some of ways which parents can be done in case of  rearing child's character:

• Become the role models

It is no secret that every parents always become role models for their child. It means they have to do everything in the best, in the correct ways in front of him because he is easy to addopt what he has seen directly. Underlined it,  what he has seen, he will follow ! He doesnt think or filter it firstly,  he just do it! All explanation above prove how necessary parents's behaviour steadily in front of him.

• Give punishment and rewards

Basically, making a mistake is something natural. It become a serious thing if doing mistakes as a habbit. That's a point. In designing child's character, parents must to apply punishment coincide when he make a mistakes.  So he remember his mistakes and won't repeat it in a future. Remember, avoid physical action to him because it doesnt make him learn anything from it. Otherwise, it only give ill will aftermath. Take as an example, he lie. Ask him why he do it, and then give him homework such as writing lesson in a good sentences. Off course it case for 6 years old above. So, as a parent we should to be creative to give educate punishment.

On the other hands, if he succeed in doing something likes, helping a grandmom to take a glass of water, getting high score in a exam, we should laud him, celebrate his success by cooking his favorite food for example.

• Talk from heart to heart

Communication is important. Even he is a child, treat him as our friends. Talk to him everytime in order to build up the best emotional between both of us. So, whenever we want to advise him we dont face any difficulty afterwards. For instace, tell him some benefits of having good character in a simple way step by step. We also can story telling - offcourse include kindness message - appropriate with his age and minds. Touch his deep heart to deliver our message. Look his eyes calmly in every time we talk about in case to make him feel appreciated.

All information above only a few example of parents' ways in shaping child's  character.  I believe every parents has more  idea. Since we realize character is necessary, it become valuable task for parents to build it up earlier. Never stop learning to be best parents!

My arrival at rumah amalia

Hi, hi, hi my blog. I never seen you since januari 2017. Because of my daily activities i even forget my promise to myself that i will update my blog routinely in english. I am sorry for it. I only a human who ever make mistakes, upss.

Oya, in my writing today i will tell you about my meeting with rumah amalia's owner that is mb rika (rumah amalia has found by Mr.Agus syafii. He has helped by his wife, Mrs. Rika in managing it). At first, I will inform you what is rumah amalia . 

My first arrival in rumah amalia on march 3, 2018. It was my picture with mb rika.

Ok, rumah amalia is a social institution which is emphasize in children's learning. In there, around 90 children get involved. It was free. So, the owner's purpose are to safe unlucky children (usually they came from broken family, poor family, or bad other condition) from being stress with their life since they were to young to face unexpected reality. The owner try to make them comfort, so whenever some of them has violence from their parents, or face a big debate with their family, rumah amalia owners admit them to stay in there until their soul feel comfort and relax. So, the owner help them to recover their soul, build up their spirit in facing their day at last.

My second meeting to rumah amalia, on april 5, 2018

I think what's rumah amalia has done very scarce especially in the big city such as jakarta (rumah amalia's location in tangerang, not far from jakarta). It was no secret that big city full of hedonism where every person thinks about theirselves only, they even dont know who is their neighbour. Am i right?

Big honour from deep inside of my heart to God which already met me with rumah amalia. Honestly, i have already knew about rumah amalia from its fanpage in 2009. At that time one of my friends has invited me to a mukjizat sholat dan doa fanpage which written about meaningful story of kindness which encourage readers to share theirs own to unfortune person in the end to  rumah amalia.

It's about creativity

No one can stop your creativity, only you yourselft can do it. This statement always write boldly in my minds. So, when ever i felt lazy to create something, i throw a way that feeling, push myself productive.

As long as you have strong passion in some field, dont bothering yourself with some kinds words; i cant do it, it's impossible. Come on, see it from opposites. Trust your heart and do it. Remember, only you yourself can stop your creativity, ok!!

Talking about creativity, crochet is include in it. Making craft using hook and yarn need strong passion and creativity. Without it, you will difficult to get survive in it. That's why it price is expensive. It spend more time, energy, creativity for making one crochet goods only. Can you imagine??

So, you dont have to blame crafter when you hear that expensive cost. Keep silent. Think in your minds, why it take high cost??

Because arts is limited. Crochet is limited, too.

In my heart i always say: every one can produce yarn, but not all of them can make it into value crochet products. I'm not selling yarn, but creativity inside it. Ok

Food

Food. Talking about food, i believe this four letters will become special topic for every one. Do you agree with me?

Ok. Food become main factor for our body growth and health. By consume a nurient food, a baby can grow to be an adult. That's why every mom really care for it. As we know, the grow for a baby cant be repeated. It happen only one for a life time everyday. If their mom have mistake to give nutrious food, negative effect will see soon.

For rich family, buying nutrious food is not difficult. The opposite condition,  from one who comes from poor family. Can eat nutriout food everyday is something worth for them. They even dont know whether they can eat three time a day or not. Can you put yourself in their condition? It's a pity.

That's why, islam have a special month in a year whereas in one month its adherents will face fasting month. It is one of way for them to feel same like poor one so that they can be more kind. Care to give nutrious food. That's a deep meaning of fasting.

See, islam is kind religion. It learn its adherents to symphaty to poor one. It is a fact, right?i writes this statement not because i'm moslem, but it is a reality.

Happy fasting for moslems in a world. Hope our kindness will be accepted by god!

Ok. In the end of write, i only want to thank god for giving me a chance to meet fasting month in this year.

Yours,

aWZ

My schedule

The difficult thing in my life is being loyal to schedule i have made. I already arrange, step by step my activities to review my english everyday. Starting from, reading jakarta post, republika english canal online, review english grammar and writing english story everyday.

But, some time my routines makes me can't match it. I break my schedule. And go on, with other. One day, i forget!! But, it's ok. At least, i have made my program to practice my english, in both oral and written.

O yeah.. for all of you who comes to this blog, you dont have to surprise about my grammar. I believe, i makes many mistakes. Since, i'm not a native speaker, my heart say, it's ok. I remember that my teacher was said, you dont have to care about the gramnar, as long as your partner can understand what you have been told, it's ok. It was, one of her way to make us brave to speak english, say our opnion, make an english sentences.

Ok. A good idea, right?because learning need a process. And process need a time. Because there's no instant in this world, include review english deep.

Yours,
aWZ

Just say hi

It's have been so long for me left this blog. In my last writing, i have ever promised to be active writing in it. But, i miss it. My routine makes me forget it for a while. Yup..i just for a while!! Because,  i will practice my english soon by writing actively in it.

I love english. Being an active english writer is something wonderful. I couldn't express it, just felt happy inside. Since i was in second class senior high school, english have been becoming a magnet thing in my minds.

Begin with an active english song listener in first junior high school, i already familiar with this international language. But, at that time, i never think to learn english more. Just following my hobby, listening english music. But the end, i really concern to english, i choose LBPP LIA institution as my place for studying it.

And now, i will review my english, by actively writing my daily activities in this lovely blog. Insyaallah..

Because english is fun. And it will make us happy. Believe me!! Ok. It's enough today, two minutes left for me to wait for 'azan'. Fasting month is a special month for moslem include me..

Sincerely,

aWZ

Time

If we read requirements of job vacancy, some times written; having english ability would be an advantage. But for me, having english ability is given and pluses. And having this blog as place to write what is in my mind is a happiness. Hehe.. by writing in this blog, no one will know it and coincide it also makes me practice my english.

Some times, i want to share everything in my life in it, but my time is not fulfil it. That's why in islam, time is given from allah. And it depend on us whether we want to fill it in useful activities or waste it day by day. But one to be sure, we have to responsible it to allah. So, it's our choice now. Allah already give a chance for us everyday until the end if our life.

Remember, time will not go back. It will not stop. Vice versa, our life is also go on. The different is, one day our life will stop but it's not happen to time. It will run. It will forget us who already live in new stage of life.

A lucky person isnt a rich one, but the one who can use time wisely.