A good character is an important thing in every one. Without having good characters, even we are clever and rich, we are still pointless. That's the reason why characters building become main purpose in a big corporation when it has hired it workers.
Talking about character, we cant deny that parents has high substantial role in configurating child's character. It should be a good cooperate between father and mother in doing it.Remember no success if both of them dont have a same purpose in bringing up child, especially about character as a basic of education. Here area some of ways which parents can be done in case of rearing child's character:
- Become the role models
It is no secret that every parents always become role models for their child. It means they have to do everything in the best, in the correct ways in front of him because he is easy to addopt what he has seen directly. Underlined it, what he has seen, he will follow ! He doesnt think or filter it firstly, he just do it! All explanation above prove how necessary parents's behaviour steadily in front of him.
- Give punishment and rewards
Basically, making a mistake is something natural. It become a serious thing if doing mistakes as a habbit. That's a point. In designing child's character, parents must to apply punishment coincide when he make a mistakes. So he remember his mistakes and won't repeat it in a future. Remember, avoid physical action to him because it doesnt make him learn anything from it. Otherwise, it only give ill will aftermath. Take as an example, he lie. Ask him why he do it, and then give him homework such as writing lesson in a good sentences. Off course it case for 6 years old above. So, as a parent we should to be creative to give educate punishment.
On the other hands, if he succeed in doing something likes, helping a grandmom to take a glass of water, getting high score in a exam, we should laud him, celebrate his success by cooking his favorite food for example.
- Talk from heart to heart
Communication is important. Even he is a child, treat him as our friends. Talk to him everytime in order to build up the best emotional between both of us. So, whenever we want to advise him we dont face any difficulty afterwards. For instace, tell him some benefits of having good character in a simple way step by step. We also can story telling - offcourse include kindness message - appropriate with his age and minds. Touch his deep heart to deliver our message. Look his eyes calmly in every time we talk about in case to make him feel appreciated.
All information above only a few example of parents' ways in shaping child's character. I believe every parents has more idea. Since we realize character is necessary, it become valuable task for parents to build it up earlier. Never stop learning to be best parents!
